Being able to detect when a woman is trying to seduce you is not an exact science. It's just something that women do naturally, we men, on the other hand, seem to miss them. There isn't a 'one' best way to tell if your date or girlfriend is trying to seduce you or not- it depends on her level of interest and social conditioning in each specific situation.
Signs a Woman is Trying to Seduce You
Following are the signs a woman is trying to seduce you.
Number 1: Checking you out
Checking you out happens for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes it's because she wants to make sure you're good-looking enough for her liking and sometimes it's because she wants to check out what you're up to. Either way, it's important that you don't take it personally. If she really likes you then she'll continue checking you out even if it makes no sense at all!
Number 2: Touchy-feely behavior
If a woman touches your arm or shoulder when she talks to you, chances are good that she's trying to get closer and show interest in your personality. This could be a sign of attraction or it could just be how women are naturally wired, but either way it's not an ideal way for her to be acting around you if she doesn't want anything more than friendship from you at this point in time.
Number 3: Curious attraction
A woman who is curious about why a man likes her might also show signs of attraction when talking with him on the phone, but this is usually only done after getting his number and texting him first so it isn't necessarily a sign of seduction or interest just yet. She may also pick up on cues from his tone of voice during the conversation which will give her clues as to whether or not he likes her back too!
Number 4: The Best Worst Jokes
She makes jokes that would never be funny to anyone else. You're laughing so hard at her jokes that your date starts talking about how funny she thinks they are. This could be good or bad depending on whether or not she's making fun of herself for trying too hard to be funny...or if she really does enjoy making fun of herself as much as she enjoys making others laugh.
Number 5: Windows to the soul
A woman is trying to seduce you when she looks at you and smiles. This can happen in many ways, but it's usually when a woman gets really close to you and leans in towards you. You'll feel like she wants to kiss you or have sex with you, but she doesn't want to do either of those things just yet.
Number 6: Closing the distance
When a woman is trying to seduce you, she will often attempt to get close by closing the distance between them physically and moving in closer towards each other. She may also touch your arm or leg as if she's trying to get closer physically too but then pulls away as if nothing happened.
Number 7: Electric tension
The other sign that she's trying to seduce you is by picking up the pace of her conversation or by taking charge of the situation. If she has been talking about something interesting and suddenly starts talking about how much she loves football then she might just be trying to get you excited about the topic so that she can ask you out on a date with her later on down the road when she's done with work for the day and has some free time on her hands.
Number 8: It's written on her face
The more she looks at you, the more likely she is interested in hooking up with you later on. If she's constantly looking at your crotch area or staring at your lips while talking, then you might have a chance!
Number 9: Subtly Seductive signals
A girl who has been around the block knows how to send out subtle signals that say "I'm trying to catch your eye", "I want this", etc.. These are always signs that she wants something from you and would be willing to do whatever it takes for it!
Number 10: Flirtatious Opportunities
Women tend to flirt with men they're interested in sexually and often find it difficult to hide their intentions. If she flirts with you, she probably wants something from you. The key is how subtle these signals are and how open she is about them. A woman who has recently been single for an extended period of time may use more obvious signs of interest, such as touching your arm or leg during conversation or grabbing your ass as she walks past you (yes, really!).
Final Thought
We can't guarantee that you'll be able to detect all seduction signals a woman tries to send you, but you have a better chance of doing so when you make a conscious effort to understand what's going on. Don't expect every woman you meet to try seduce you... Some women might be too shy and others might not be interested in having sex just yet, but it's always good to keep your wits about you, just in case an opportunity arises.
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